Tuesday, April 23, 2013

'The Kiss' ...Sally Smith O'Rourke

The story that Sally Smith O'Rourke shares with us today is both heart wrenching and touching.  The first time that I read the story, tears came to my eyes. As I read on, the sadness became interlaced with warmth and happiness, feelings generated by the actions of a single and special encounter. I was deeply moved. Thank you, for sharing your story, Ms. O'Rourke. Giveaway details at the bottom of this post!

I was incredibly lucky enough to have been given one of the first mouse pads graced by Janet Taylor’s wonderful painting of ‘the kiss’ from the BBC/A&E 1996 Pride and Prejudice mini-series. So More Agreeably Engaged seemed the perfect forum for this story.

Some of you may be aware that my late husband, Michael, and I collaborated on The Man Who Loved Jane Austen. It was a very personal project that he called the ultimate valentine because it came out of our love for each other.

We decided to bind the finished product and give it as gifts to friends and family. Originally we did a dozen copies that were hand bound with green ribbon in three volumes as Austen’s books were printed. When people started asking for additional copies we had them professionally printed and bound rather than trying to keep up with the demand with handmade editions.

It was fun that everyone seemed to enjoy the book, but the fun didn’t last long. My world crashed when I lost Michael suddenly on November 14, 2001. Everything went on the shelf, even my life.

A few months after the funeral, a close friend (the best man at our wedding) called and told me that I needed to get out so he was taking me to the screening of a movie. He was right of course; it would have been very easy for me to become a hermit. As a member of BAFTA (British Academy of Film and Television Arts) he had passes to an, as yet, unreleased British film. I grudgingly agreed to go and just as I was leaving he called again and asked that I bring a copy of the book. “Why?” I asked (he had gotten one of the original hand bound editions). “I want to give it to someone.” I picked up a copy and left.

The screening was at one of the film and television studios in Hollywood. As it was only a short time after 9/11 the security was extreme. There were check points to get on to the parking lot, the walk through gate, the building entrance and the theatre itself. Very time consuming.

When we reached the stairs leading to the theatre it was clear the theatre was not yet open as a crowd was gathering in the hall. Apparently the film had arrived without numbers differentiating the reels so the projectionist had no idea in which order they were to run. Until it was cleared up they wouldn’t let anyone in the theatre (never was really sure why, overly secure I guess). A tall, handsome young man politely made his way through the crowd and straightened it all out and we were finally allowed to enter the screening room.

While Roger made his rounds to visit with friends I sat down and waited, still finding it difficult to mingle with people; particularly strangers. After a while he came over, handed me the book and looked up the aisle, “Go give it to him.” I looked over my shoulder, six feet away was the star of the movie we were there to see. The tall young man who had fixed the film roll problem. I looked back at Roger quizzically. “You dedicated the book to him, give it to him.” “Seriously?” I asked. He pulled me to my feet, “Yes.”

We had dedicated the book to him. To him, Jennifer Ehle and Jane Austen. I took a deep breath and looked back at Roger; he nodded his head and sat down. Slowly I made my way up the steps and stood next to him as he finished a conversation with someone else. He turned to me and smiled, “Hello.” I didn’t reciprocate the greeting, I just said, “I have something for you.”

His lovely smile turned to trepidation and I realized that he was afraid I was a stalker. I assured him I wasn’t, told him about the book and showed him the dedication. The smile returned and he thanked me as the house lights dimmed and we returned to our seats.

After a much anticipated Question and Answer session with the film’s director, producer and cast, Roger and I headed to the exit. As we neared the door the young man stopped me. He thanked me again, saying he was exceedingly touched and had never been given a nicer compliment. He bent down and kissed my cheek and then was pulled away by another fan.

In the tram that took us to the car a woman’s voice asked, “You’re the one who gave Colin the book aren’t you?” I turned around, the question had been asked by Minnie Driver who was sitting next to Saffron Burrows. I only had time to respond in the affirmative when we arrived at the car.


I realize now that it was an amazing evening but I wasn’t able to really appreciate and enjoy it as much as I might have. The wound incurred by the loss of Mike was still raw and I was very much in a daze most of the time. Still the gracious young man left an indelible impression and what else can you say when you’ve been kissed by Colin Firth?

Yours Affectionately, Jane Austen, also dedicated to Jane Austen, Jennifer Ehle and Colin Firth, is the expansion and continuation of the story in The Man Who Loved Jane Austen, our ultimate valentine. It delves into the complex nature of Fitzwilliam Darcy, the 21st century American horseman who slipped through a rip in the fabric of time and met Jane Austen.

Eliza Knight, the Manhattan artist who finds the letter proving to Darcy that he did, in fact, travel in time, has fallen in love with the enigmatic Virginian after a long weekend at his home, Pemberley Farms. His epic tale of love and romance in Regency England makes Eliza wonder if it’s possible for her to compete with the inimitable Jane Austen. And things are happening in the small hamlet of Chawton, England that could change everything. Will Jane Austen be the wedge that divides the modern couple or the tie that binds them?

Ann Channon of Jane Austen’s House Museum (Chawton Cottage) said:
I have finished Yours Affectionately, Jane Austen and really liked it. Your books are imaginative and very different. Your ideas are new and fresh and endearing. Well, done.

Jocelyn Bury of Jane Austen’s Regency World magazine said:
O’Rourke creates a world that defies cynicism and demands suspension of disbelief – even in this age of doubt and hyper-realism. Sheer escapism at its best. Clever, charming and affectionate – is the real Mr. Darcy unmasked?

Kimberley Truesdale said on IndieJane:
I didn’t know I needed Mr. Darcy with a Southern drawl until I read Yours Affectionately, Jane Austen by Sally Smith O’Rourke. Take a moment and soak that in… Mr. Darcy with a genteel drawl… yes.

Amie McCracken said:
I’m very excited that I got to review this book when I did because this year is the 200th anniversary of Pride and Prejudice. I will be rereading Jane’s book in honor of that and I highly recommend Sally’s book as well.



Yours Affectionately, Jane Austen is available in the following:
Amazon Kindle
Amazon Trade Paperback
Barnes & Noble Nook

Personal Information for Sally Smith O'Rourke:
Austenticity  (the everything Austen site)
Blog
Facebook
Twitter    (@Chawton1810)

Below is a trailer for Yours Affectionately, Jane Austen by Sally Smith O'Rourke. Enjoy.



A special 'thank you' to Sally Smith O'Rourke for her generous giveaway of the two book set, The Man Who Loved Jane Austen and Yours Affectionately, Jane Austen.  This giveaway is international for eBooks and domestic for paperbacks. To be entered please leave a comment below. Be sure to include your email address in the comment. To prevent unwanted spam, put your email address with an (at) instead of @.  Winner will be chosen in a random drawing. Giveaway ends at midnight, April 28. Good luck. 

38 comments:

  1. I am touched every time I read Sally's story. It reminds me to appreciate our loved ones and never take them for granted. So thanks for sharing it.

    Don't enter me for the giveaway as I already own her books.

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    1. It is a beautiful story, isn't it! Thanks for commenting and sharing your thoughts.

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  2. What an affecting story, and thank you, Sally, for your willingness to share it with us all. You have me intrigued, indeed, for both of these books!

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    1. Thank you for commenting, Tess. It was a touching story.

      Good luck in the giveaway.

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  3. aw, such a sweet story! I'd love to win the books. araminta18 at gmail dot com

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  4. A beautiful and poignant remembrance....
    BBC's film version of Pride and prejudice made such a profound impression on me that any time I read or even think of P & P I only visualize Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy and Jennifer Ehle as Elizabeth!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by, Jeffrey. I feel the same way about the BBC miniseries and its actors. I have to share a quick story on that subject. My grandchildren watched it with me a year ago and they both loved. My grandson was three at the time and fell in love with Lizzy. My granddaughter, then 7, has continued to like the movie and teases me about loving Mr. Darcy. Well, we watched the 2005 movie the other day as I was looking for scenes to draw. They were both distraught, especially, my grandson. Where were Darcy and Lizzy? They couldn't believe it was PnP without CF and JE. I laughed and tried to explain. My grandson told his parents that we watched PnP but without Mr. Darcy and Lizzy. He was mortified! Ok,ok, so it wasn't a quick story! lol

      Again, thanks, for visiting and commenting.

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    2. Speaking of grandchildren; my grandson, Nick will be 18 in June. He was the reason I didn't lose it entirely when I lost Mike. We had dinner a couple weeks ago and he said he wanted to read P&P (I was thrilled) because he had enjoyed the movie so much. I asked if he meant the Keira Knightly version. No, he answered emphatically, the 'real' one, the one I watched with you (when he was 12). At about that same time (when he was 12) we went to see a movie called 'What a Girl Wants'. As we left the theatre I commented that it wasn't his usual fare. He said, "no but I know you like Colin Firth." He'd suggested it and watched it for me. What a sweetie.

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    3. Sounds like you have a special grandson, Sally. I am glad that he was there for you!

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  5. what a sweet story!

    I would love to enter for the book! nikostar (at) gmail.com

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  6. Ohhhh, she really met THE Mr. Darcy, wonderful!
    What a sweet and lovely story,I really enjoyed reading it, and now I just HAVE to read the books, so it would be absolutely wonderful to be a lucky winner.
    Lots of love from Mai, Denmark

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    1. Forgot my email adress: mbz at hafnet.dk

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    2. Hi, Mai! I'm so glad that you paid a visit to my blog! I'm honored!

      Isn't it wonderful that she actually met THE Mr. Darcy AND got a kiss from him! I must say I am a bit envious, but in a good way! lol

      Good luck in the giveaway. It is so good to hear from you. I hope you are doing good.

      Thanks again for stopping by.

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  8. Sally, that is a beautiful and poignant story. The books are clearly extremely personal to you, but they are also obviously very well written judging by the wonderful comments you have received from readers.

    I am so pleased you had the chance to personally hand a copy to Colin Firth, that he was the true gentleman we know him to be and that you got a very precious thank you gift by way of a kiss. I am only sorry that you were in such a difficult place in your life at the time.

    Thank you for sharing this, and Janet, thank you as always for another excellent read.

    Cassie

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    1. You are welcome, Cassie. Thank you for stopping by and supporting my blog!

      Hope you are having a lovely day in England!

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  9. I hadn't heard this story before - how very lovely, and it brought a few tears to my eyes! I look forward to reading the book once I get beyond a volunteer project that I am working on wraps up in the next few weeks!

    thanks for sharing

    colleen O'Brien
    ctob68@yahoo.com

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    1. Isn't it a lovely story. So glad you stopped by and read it. I hope you get a chance to read Sally's books soon.

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  10. While I am saddened to hear about the untimely loss of your beloved husband, I am happy that you were able to collaborate and publish your "ultimate valentine" together. That is a blessing you will be able to treasure forever. What a wonderful testament to your love for one another!

    I look forward to reading your work.

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful story with us!

    Ctaylorbears(at)yahoo(dot)com

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    1. What a lovely comment, Christina. Thanks for coming by and taking the time to comment.

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  11. Such a dear friend to insist you go out to a movie - and to arrange for you to meet Colin and present him with the book written by you and Michael. *hugs*

    ~ junewilliams7 {at} yahoo {dot} com

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    1. Wasn't he a dear friend. We could all use friends like that couldn't we?

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  12. What an interesting insight into Colin Firth, too. Not often anyone expects a "star" to seek one out and thank her for the book and its dedication to him, Jennifer Ehle, and Jane Austen!


    Regina Silvia
    rcmsilviaatgmail.com

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    1. I agree with you entirely. That said much about him as a man.

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  13. That is awesome :) Colin Firth is a class act all the way, and that is why he is my favorite Mr. Darcy ever! How cool a story, so glad you shared it with us :) Thank you!

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    1. He is a class act. Thanks for commenting, Erika.

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  14. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story.
    And for writing your books.

    minniergc at yahoo dot com

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  15. Like so many other, Colin Firth IS my Mr. Darcy. This was a wonderful story. I loved TMWLJA. It is one of my favorite fan fiction stories because it is so different. I haven't had a chance to read YAJA. Perhaps now I will!

    knucklehed90280(at)yahoo.com

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    1. Hi Nora. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. I am reading TMWLJA now and really enjoying it.

      Good luck in the giveaway.

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  16. Thank you all for coming to Janet's blog and sharing my little story. I realized the other day that it didn't occur to me to get a picture with him or even his autograph. I didn't sign the book I gave him either. I really was out of it, none of that would happen today. :-) Woke up to a lovely review of The Man Who Loved Jane Austen by Wendi Sotis. Here is the link for any of you considering reading it. http://wendisotis.com/2013/04/26/the-man-who-loved-jane-austen-by-sally-smith-orourke/
    And thanks again!!!

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    1. By the way, Sally, you not only received one of the first 'The Kiss' mouse pads but the very first one. As soon as I received them, I put yours in the mail! I'm so thrilled that you like it.

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  17. What a beautiful, touching story. Sad in that you lost your husband, Sally, but wonderful in that you can pay him such a loving tribute.

    I love hearing that Colin Firth is gracious, polite and approachable. Sigh. He will always be the ultimate Mr. Darcy for me.

    Thank you so much for the giveaway opportunity. Happy Friday!

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    1. Isn't it nice to hear good things like this about Colin Firth?

      Thanks for reading Sally's touching story and for visiting my blog. I will be sure that you are entered in the give away.

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  18. Oops! Forgot my email addy. It's psychoticbooks(at)yahoo(dot)com.

    :)

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  19. Sally, thank you for being my guest all this week. I appreciate you sharing your story with all of us. I know it has to be difficult in some ways but glad that you were willing.

    Also a special thanks for your generous give away. I am sure the lucky winner will be exceedingly pleased.

    Congratulations on the great review of TMWLJA from Wendi Sotis. I read her review and thought it very good. I am now reading the book myself and I do like it too.

    Thanks again, Sally.

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