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“You
are all to come to Pemberley at Christmas.” (Pride and Prejudice, Vol III,
Ch 18)
When I determined to write a novel set at
Pemberley over the two (and a little) weeks of Christmastide, I knew that many
of the holiday traditions we find so familiar today stem from the Victorian era
and would not do for an occasion transpiring firmly in the years 1798-1799. But no matter, I thought; there is a wealth
of holiday practices to draw upon – after all, I had long read of holiday
revels from medieval times. Who needed
Christmas trees and fancy greeting cards? (Though the former did exist, but
very simply and occurring sparsely.) And
so I began to research the common celebrations of the end of the 18th
century.
And that’s when the first of my troubles
with Christmas appeared. For amongst his
other noted audacities, Cromwell can be attributed with a ban on celebrations
of Christmas in the mid 17th century and, while many people
continued to mark it in an underground fashion, it all but disappeared from
noticeable society for some years. This
led to the next bit of trouble. When it
became acceptable once more openly to celebrate, just what traditions and
customs came back in the same or altered form – and what new ones joined the
old?
“I do not get on at all. I hear such different accounts of you as
puzzle me exceedingly.”
Of course, this quotation from Pride and Prejudice relates to Elizabeth
Bennet trying to make out Mr Darcy’s character as they dance together. But I could as easily apply it to the late
Georgian and early Regency periods when seeking Christmas customs. The more references I consulted, the more
contradictory evidence I found as to what was – or was not – observed. Would people hang mistletoe or kissing
boughs? Yes. And No.
Would they have had a Yule log?
Yes. And No. And if they did have one, would they have
gone out to collect it on Christmas eve day for immediate installation? Or
would they go out on the day after Christmas and select one to store away for
use the following year? Well...
Yes. And No. And Yes.
And No.
These few examples are illustrative of what
I ran into at every turn. Refer to eight
different social historians and you’ll get some
common threads, but even amongst what they agree is custom, you’ll also get
eight sets of qualifiers as to who would engage in it or to what degree.
I threw up my hands in frustration at one
point, wondering if I should just abandon altogether my story – or move it to
summer at the very least – when it suddenly occurred to me that what the
conflicting accounts from social historians really
allowed was an open field for me to pick and choose what customs the Darcy
family of Pemberley would observe! I was
being given creative license within some broad bounds of his family heritage,
economic class and rank. How
wonderful!
So rather than attempt to give you all a
history of myriad ways Christmas might have been observed by Georgian families (which
can be found easily in many posts and articles) I will offer you here a few of
what I found lovely to write into the Darcy “family history” for my new novel, A Fitzwilliam Legacy. (Available now in paperback via Amazon.com,
and in early October in ebook format at amazon and smashwords.)
It is a custom universally acknowledged
that a new-married man in possession of a good fortune must have a decorated
house for Christmastide. And so, the
Darcys follow custom. Common areas such
as entry halls would be adorned with garlands (around pillars perhaps) as well
as a few rooms of general use such as parlours or music rooms which would be
similarly festooned in greenery, rosemary, bay, laurel, or mistletoe. These would have been set on Christmas eve
and taken down the day after Epiphany.
Here is a scene from A Fitzwilliam
Legacy describing the north parlour at Pemberley as the Darcys and their
guests make their way to it after dinner on Christmas eve:
Lizzy joined in the collective expressions of
delight on entering the north parlour, Mrs Reynolds and her staff having
outdone themselves in the room’s dressing.
Evergreen boughs draped tables and mantle, filled window ledges, edged
door openings – all accented here and there with ivy and mistletoe, cones and
holly berries. Ribbons of velvet and
striped satin intertwined amongst the branches of garlands to increase by their
contrast the convivial setting. The room
glowed softly from the flickering light of beeswax candles established at
doorways and windows and in wall sconces, their flames mirrored in the polished
silver sticks and candelabras and reflected, jewel-like, in crystal. The fireplace remained dark, but had been
prepared and awaited only the master’s hand to set ablaze the massive log
filling the hearth. But sensation
redolent of yew, box, rosemary and bay, mingling with candles and warmed spiced
ale, after being enclosed all the afternoon, was released upon the opening of the
doors, and brought a sigh of contentment from Lizzy as she surveyed the
scene.
Another tradition I chose to give to Darcy
is that of the Yule log. A Scandinavian pre-Christmas ritual later adopted by
Christianity – a large oak log decorated with sprigs of holly or yew –this
would signify a return to light and life.
A piece of the burned log would be saved to protect the home in the
coming year. It would also be used to
light the next year’s fire. Various
traditions grew in England as to how and when Yule logs were used, but commonly
they were lit on Christmas eve (with a glass of wine poured over it first if
following French custom) and kept burning straight through Twelfth Night, being
extinguished on Epiphany. Here is my
take on the Darcy ritual:
At
Georgiana’s earlier direction, a pianoforte had been installed in one corner of
the parlour, chairs arranged about it and a large spray of rich, red hothouse
roses mixed with greenery adorning its surface.
But before their entertainments began, Darcy tradition would be
observed. Naismith stood to one side of
the dark fireplace, his tall form so straight and still that in his green
livery he could have been mistaken for one of Pemberley’s firs himself in this
muted ‘grove.’ In his hands he cradled a
silver card tray. As the party stood in
anticipation, Darcy turned to Lizzy.
“Have I your leave, madam?” He
bowed low.
“You
have, sir,” she replied with an answering curtsey.
He
crossed to his footman, removed from the tray the small piece of charred wood
from last year’s fire, and brought it to his wife. Smiling, Lizzy held it over a nearby candle,
then returned the lighted shard to her husband who placed it in the hearth to
light the Yule log. As flames took hold
in the kindling and the massive log began to shift and singe in the heat of the
rising fire, she noted a momentary clouding over of Darcy’s eyes and his glance
at Georgiana. Lizzy surmised that she
was not the only person whose thoughts had strayed on this night to
Christmastides past and absent family.
As we are on the subject of Yule logs, my
Darcy family traditionally goes out for a walk round the property on Christmas
day, to find a suitable log for the next year.
As they walked along, of a sudden
Bingley was struck from behind in the shoulder with a ball of snow. He looked around in surprise, scooped and
packed a clump of snow from the ground and then, being unsure of the source of
his own insult, let fly at a startled Colonel Fitzwilliam. There followed an impromptu skirmish, every
one throwing snow at one another amidst feigned resentment, until all were
covered liberally in white and were laughing too hard to continue.
The
commencement of this battle was afterwards attributed to Kitty amidst her
protestations of innocence, while Lizzy smirked behind her muff. They spent a moment brushing themselves and
each other off, and then fanned out into the woods for their original purpose
in the outing – to seek a Yule log for the next year. After only a short search, a fallen trunk of
ash was espied by Fitzwilliam and pronounced by all as perfect for the honour;
it would require little trimming and, properly tended, was surely large enough
to burn through twelve nights. Every one
pulled on the log – for good luck more than in expectation of dislodging it –
with Jane and Lizzy each taking an extra tug on behalf of their children. Their labour of the day now complete, the Darcys
and their guests left the trunk then to the ropes and farm horses of their
grounds-men for transport back to the stables to reside and dry out until the
eve of Christmas the following year.
They returned in the fading afternoon light to the comfort of their
present Christmas fire, to warm their limbs and their constitutions with
chocolate before adjourning to their rooms.
Christmas day itself is most often
characterised as a day of family and of quiet reflection; starting, of course,
with attendance at service in the morning and the giving of charity to the poor
in the clay box. This outing would be
followed by a sumptuous dinner at about three or four with family and perhaps
close friends, and then an evening of parlour games, perhaps a little dancing,
and general converse. At the end of Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth wrote to
her Aunt Gardiner, “You are all to come to Pemberley at Christmas.” In A
Fitzwilliam Legacy, taking place a year after Elizabeth and Darcy marry,
their party on Christmas day consists of family – Jane and Bingley, Kitty
Bennet, Colonel Fitzwilliam – and a few unexpected relations as well. But Mr and Mrs Gardiner, spending their
traditional Christmas at Longbourn, are due to arrive in only a few days to
pass the New Year and Twelfth Night at Pemberley with their favourite nieces;
as are several of Darcy’s friends from his school years. There is also a new friend introduced, a
young widow invited by special request of Darcy’s cousin. The plots will thicken and, as the volume one
tag line indicates, “For Lizzy and Darcy, it seems the difference between
peaceful Christmastide celebration and most unharmonious discord is all...
relatives.”
Gift giving as well might have occurred on
Christmas, but for many families, they would proffer token or thoughtful gifts
either on New Year’s or, as is custom for my Darcy family, on Twelfth
Night.
“I agree. I could almost feel some remorse for the
epithets I have hurled at your aunt these last weeks.”
“Almost?”
“Mr
Darcy, you can hardly expect more than one miracle to show itself in a
day! And I should not wish to draw your
attention too much from [Lady Catherine’s] astonishing good deed.”
“Then,
madam, if that was your design, you should never have donned this gown!”
Smiling,
[Elizabeth] crossed now to the settee where two parcels rested on a small side
table.
“Come,” she said, “permit me to give you my
Twelfth Night tokens while we have time still.”
He
joined her, grabbing up two small parcels of his own from the mantel.
“Me
first!” she said, thrusting the smaller of her gifts towards him. Setting his down, he took it and removed the
protective linen covering to reveal a book bound in faded red leather. It was in superb condition and he turned it
over to the front to see the title: An
Account of the Life of Mr Richard Savage, in a first edition printing
before Samuel Johnson’s name had been associated with the publication. The author here was ‘anonymous.’
“Wherever did you find this?” he asked in amazement. “I have been searching for a first!”
“Yes, I know. I wrote to all your
book sellers some months ago and alerted them that if they found the title,
they should come to me,” she laughed.
Before he could take it into his head to sit and begin reading the book,
she offered him the second parcel. It
was largely flat, about a foot on each side, and he removed the wrap to find
two thin boards. Laughing at Lizzy’s
expression of impatience, he slipped off the top of them to reveal beneath a
series of simple drawings. There were
four in all, hastily rendered but, given the landscape they represented, more
potent for their simplicity. “This...
this is the edge just northeast of Pemberley,” he said as he studied them
closely.
“It
is. That young artist you liked so well
at the Royal Academy, Mr Constable? It
seems he passed through the area to visit a friend in Yorkshire, and made these
sketches. I was fortunate enough at the bookseller
to recognise the location. I thought
perhaps you might like to commission a painting on the strength of them. He does paint light so well.”
“Perhaps. But these are wondrous
just on their own. I shall send to have
them framed together for my study.”
“I
am pleased you like them.”
Darcy felt it necessary as well to express his pleasure without words, such that it was some moments before he got round to offering Lizzy the first of her gifts.
Darcy felt it necessary as well to express his pleasure without words, such that it was some moments before he got round to offering Lizzy the first of her gifts.
You will have to read A Fitzwilliam Legacy to find out in what thoughtful manner Darcy reciprocated
with gifts to his Elizabeth.
“Is it Christmas gaieties that he is
staying for?” (Mansfield Park,
Ch 29)
“At Christmas everybody invites their
friends about them, and people think little of even the worst weather.” (Emma, Vol I,
Ch 13)
“[Catherine Morland] remembered that her
eldest brother had lately formed an intimacy with a young man of his own
college, or the name of Thorpe; and that he had spent the last week of the
Christmas vacation with his family, near London.” (Northanger Abbey, Ch 4)
“We have had a very dull Christmas. Mr
and Mrs Musgrove have not had one dinner party all the holidays. I do not reckon the Hayters as anybody. The holidays, however, are over at last...” (Persuasion, Vol II, Ch 6)
“I remember last Christmas at a little
hop at the park, he danced from eight o’clock till four, without once sitting
down.” (Sense and Sensibility, Ch 9)
“I sincerely hope your Christmas in
Hertfordshire may abound in the gaieties which that season generally brings...” (Pride and
Prejudice, Vol I, Ch 21)
Jane Austen
mentions Christmas seldom in her letters and when she does, it is idle
reference to acknowledge her sister being away from home or some such. The conclusions sometimes drawn in conjecture
from this are that the holiday was of little consequence to her. Yet these quotations just above – one from
each of her published six novels – indeed suggest that Jane Austen would have
known very well such gaieties as house parties, fancy dress balls, games and
charades, festive dishes such as rice pudding (Christmas pudding was a
relatively new concoction in her lifetime) and gift giving.
Darcy, given his
“unsocial, taciturn” nature, might be quite content to pass all of the
Christmas holiday in quiet family pursuits, but in deference to his lively wife
we do find some parties in A Fitzwilliam
Legacy as well. One in particular
will bring in the New Year of 1799 with a celebrated soprano providing a
concert for much of the invited neighbourhood.
But long-time family tradition is still maintained as well, and perhaps
a few new ones are established in a quiet alcove.
And
so [Lizzy] had escaped to this alcove to take a breath before plunging into the
fray again. She closed her eyes now,
leaned against the wall and, indeed, took two or three deep breaths, just for
the joy of being able to do so. And she
imagined that, if she felt as she did now, her husband must be in a positive
misery, having in general a lower tolerance for public spectacles and
outpourings.
She
opened her eyes when she became aware that some object had moved across the
opening of the alcove, darkening the shadows further until it passed; and
following she noted someone standing only a few feet away. Cautiously, she leaned forward to peer out
and then, with a smile at seeing who it was, she reached and took hold of a
coat tail.
Darcy jumped and swung around quickly at feeling his coat being tugged,
prepared to defend himself from whatever assailed him. When Lizzy laughed, he relaxed his stance,
then stepped into the alcove with her.
“Ah,
so it is you! I did wonder where you had got to; I thought
perhaps you had called upstairs again.”
“No.” She looked up at him
sheepishly. “I simply needed a quiet
moment.”
He
barked a laugh but aborted it at the sound it produced, finishing instead with
a soft chortle. “As did I, Mrs Darcy… as
did I.”
He
embraced her then, and she rested her head comfortably on his chest. For a moment they stood thus, simply enjoying
the silence their temporary respite offered.
Then they kissed – a long, satisfying kiss that served further to shut
out the world – until voices nearby brought them from their interlude.
“There is no one here – though I was certain I saw him come out this way
and heard his laugh,” came an unidentifiable disembodied voice.
“Well, no matter.” This was
recognisable as Fitzwilliam, whose voice, though it remained easy, became
measurably louder as he continued. “I am
certain he will return shortly – he will not let the hour pass without
observing custom.”
Darcy and Lizzy waited until they were sure the others had returned to
the dining room before moving. Darcy
removed his pocket watch and, holding it aloft such that he had light enough to
read the dial, indicated that it was nearly a quarter before the hour of
midnight.
“I
suppose we must go back, then,” whispered Lizzy.
“In a moment.” He reached to take up a soft tendril of hair
near her temple that had escaped its orderly confinement and he turned it round
his finger slowly. “May I tell you
first, Mrs Darcy, how very proud I am tonight?”
Lizzy
chuckled. “Mr Darcy, may I remind you
that you are always proud?”
Darcy smiled at the long-standing criticism. “Ah, but tonight… tonight I am proud not of
myself, or at least I suppose not wholly of myself except in having the good
sense to win you; but rather that I have heard nothing but compliments all the
night long for my excellent wife!”
“You
exaggerate, surely.”
“I
assure you, I do not. You are the toast
of Derbyshire tonight, my love – the most accomplished and affable mistress of
Pemberley. What do you think of that?”
“I
think Derbyshire is sadly lacking in entertainments!” They laughed, but then she cut it off to kiss
him yet again.
“Are
you feeling revived now?” he asked after
another moment had passed.
“I
am,” she replied coyly, and he imagined he saw a glint in her eye in their dim
sanctuary. “What did you have in mind,
Mr Darcy?”
“Nothing so enticing as the invitation in your eyes, Mrs Darcy. I shall happily ask you to offer it once more
very soon.” He shook his head to rid
himself of the bewitching distraction.
“Come! I have a threshold to
cross upon the hour; and with fortune at my side, soon after I shall take my
wife to bed.”
“Lucky lady,” cooed she, causing his step to falter for the merest
instant.
In fact, their luck held. Darcy and Lizzy returned to the dining room
ten minutes before the hour and gathered everyone around for the toasts and
speeches the night demanded. On the
stroke of midnight, the family customs were observed, Darcy having gone
outdoors only long enough to knock for admittance on the hour and be the first
across his threshold, ensuring he would be master of his house for yet another
year. Glasses were filled, well wishes
traded, and only a short time after, their guests began to call for carriages
to take them home to their own New Year observances. It was declared a wonderful evening by all.
Once
all the evening guests had gone, it took little time for the house guests to
retire. The combined events of afternoon
into evening, and the anxieties which some of these had produced, had served to
exhaust everyone it seemed, and the gentlemen were reminded that they had an
early call on the day if they planned to shoot.
And so it was that only a little after half past one in the morning,
Lizzy and Darcy climbed into their bed to resume what they had begun in the
alcove the year before.
Another celebration that Darcy tolerates is
the sponsoring of a Twelfth Night Ball in volume two of A Fitzwilliam Legacy. Although
many such at the time were masquerades, however, the Darcys choose to stick
with a formal dress ball.
“Do
you regret that we did not keep to fancy dress tradition for our Twelfth Night
ball?” she teased him.
“Good heavens, no!” he replied immediately. “You are perfection just as you are. And in any event, can you possibly imagine I
should welcome the requirement to attire myself as Julius Caesar?” He laughed.
“I prefer to cloak my tyranny in the form of a gentleman with a
beautiful lady at my side. It is the
only way I shall weather such an event as tonight.”
Still, if our Mr Darcy suffers the evening,
it promises to be a momentous occasion for more than one young woman (and
gentleman) of our acquaintance. Indeed,
all of Pemberley and its surrounding villages have been bustling about to ready
for it.
As
suddenly as the cold snap had arrived two days past, it moved out again, bring
mild air behind it. It bode well for
guests who would journey from any distance to Pemberley for the
festivities. Less auspicious was the
cloud cover that accompanied the warmer temperatures. Even a waning half moon if the night were clear
might have offered some welcome light to travellers; but it seemed they would
have to rely heavily on their coach lamps.
Darcy
had directed that lanterns be maintained on the drive from the gatehouse, but
little could be done beyond the estate, where illumination would be most
wanted. In an effort to ensure at least
some measure of protection, he had engaged several men to ride in pairs along
the main road from Lambton throughout the evening – locals who held intimate
knowledge of the terrain and tenuous points along the road, they were glad of
the employ in mid winter while their fields were fallow.
The
mild clime, coupled with mounting anticipation of the night’s festivities, gave
to everyone a restless vigour evident even at the breakfast table: heels
tapping rapidly on the floor to match the rhythm of anxious fingers on the
table; much to and fro for contemplating the prospect from the windows; an
impatience with the news being reported in the papers. There was a bustle of activity throughout the
house from the wee hours as staff and servants made ready. But the residents found themselves with
several hours to pass before they could begin their own preparations and much
which they might find to occupy their time would only put them in the way of
maids and footmen and sundry others. The
suggestion of a walk therefore was eagerly embraced, and those few who declined
– Lady Catherine, Anne and her companion, the Gardiners – repaired to their own
rooms.
While
the residents took the air, the house was in the throes of being
transformed. The ballroom had been opened
the previous day and now every surface which had not been yet cleaned thrice
received further attention. Chairs were
set up around the perimeter; music stands erected in the upper-story niche for
the musicians; fresh boughs installed for decoration and trimmed with cones,
berries and ribbons; fireplaces at either end set, with large greenery sprays
established on the mantles above; and chandeliers readied with six-hour
candles. The full-length windows leading
to the outer balcony were scrubbed and its terrace cleared of every trace of
snow, ice, leaves or debris, in the event brave souls wished to venture out for
air.
The
North parlour was arranged for conversation groups or music for those who did
not partake of dancing, Georgiana’s piano festooned in fresh greenery, the
Christmas fire alight still though much reduced. As had been done for the musical evening
early in the week, the dining room and its adjacent parlour had been opened to
each other and set for supper use. Two
additional parlours had been opened into one for use as a card room, set with
tables and chairs, stocked with cards and chips and the occasional board for
chess, backgammon or draughts. Three
smaller rooms on the ground floor would provide dressing rooms for ladies and
gentlemen to repair their appearance on arrival and storage for outer garments
and shoe changes. They were fitted with
long looking glasses and appropriate amenities.
The smoking room was aired and stocked.
The
kitchen had been active for some days in the preparation of light refreshments,
supper dishes, beverages. As people were
in some cases travelling a distance, the supper on offer would be
substantial. Darcy had spent an hour or
more at first light in the cellars with Naismith and Mrs Reynolds, directing
the use and timing of wines, champagne, brandies, sherry and port. Negus and Wassail and ale-based nog were
prepared. The aromas from all this
activity reached even the main house now and again with the continual opening
of doors between service and living areas.
Usually
unseen in the execution of their duties, an astonishing number of servants were
to be found everywhere from first light: polishing, buffing, dusting, setting
fires in all the grates and stocking coal or wood; rearranging furniture,
straightening draperies, rolling carpets for storage. Pemberley’s permanent staff had been
augmented with day labourers for the occasion.
Again, a ball for the gentry meant welcome winter income for a few days
for the local populace. They would
return the next morning to assist in restoring the house to its customary
arrangements.
So, these are some of the Christmastide
customs I gave to Fitzwilliam Darcy and his family. If you wish to know more of them, I hope you
will be intrigued enough by this glimpse to read A Fitzwilliam Legacy. I
offered you no real plot teasers in my quoted material, but can assure you
that, in a house party of this size and duration, there are enough intrigues to
satisfy and they are (nearly) all of them resolved by the end of the Twelfth
Night Ball in volume two. 
And – as this is a Christmas-related posting,
and Christmas today (or whatever observance you celebrate around this time
period) tends to be characterised by gift giving, we of course have gifts on offer for a few lucky readers. If I have whetted your appetite to read A Fitzwilliam Legacy, there are two
copies on offer (a full pair of volumes I and II for each of two winners)
either in paperback or ebook format.
This is open worldwide.
But that’s not all! When our thoughts turn to Christmas, we
imagine decorated trees, and we trim them with ornaments. For two lucky people, we have two very
special ornaments to be won. My good
friend Barbara has an etsy shop called ExLibris Purses (links at bottom) where
she sells book-cover purses. And as an
offshoot of that, to utilize the book innards she removed for the purses, she
began to make wonderful Lizzy Bennet ornaments.
I have commissioned more than I can count to date! Each one is unique and delightful. Barbara has made, expressly for this book
launch, a Lizzy ornament, holding a complete copy of Darcy’s letter to her from
Pride and Prejudice; and a
Georgiana Darcy ornament, holding (what else) appropriate sheet music of the
time. And one of these ornaments can be
yours!
One 2014
Fitzwilliam and Elizabeth calendar will complete the list of giveaways.
What do you have to do to win one of these
giveaways? It’s very simple – just leave
a comment below and share one of your own special family holiday traditions or
memories, whether it be Christmas, Channukah, or any other year-end holiday you
celebrate. Then make sure you leave your
email address for contact purposes (e.g. janedoe at gmail dot com), and your
name will go into a random drawing. One
winner will be selected every day starting on Friday after
midnight until the giveaways run out.
And speaking of gifts, late September/early
October is none too early to begin holiday shopping for your own lucky friends
and family. So if you have a few
Janeites on your list, perhaps they might enjoy a Christmas read of A Fitzwilliam Legacy – or a Pride
and Prejudice 2014 Calendar featuring artwork based on the 1995 and 2005
films – or a one-of-a-kind ornament of their favourite Austen character. Links to where you can purchase these and
other great gifts are listed below.
JT Originals (2014 Calendar and other Jane Austen inspired merchandise)
ExLibris Purses (I have the link to the sold page where several of the dolls are shown. The home page shows all the purses.)
In the meantime, as you think about your
own cherished family customs, here are a few traditions from Janet, Barbara and
me:
When
I was a child Christmas Eve get-togethers at my paternal grandparents’ house
was a big tradition. All of my dad’s
five brothers and one sister and their children would be there. We drew names earlier in the year for gift
giving. My grandmother made new flannel
pyjamas for all her granddaughters and we would put them on as soon as we
opened them. I can remember the
anticipation of getting those new pj’s.
All the parents brought additional dishes of food and we had lots of
good things to eat. After all the
wonderful family time, we would then go home, get to bed and be wide awake
listening for Santa to come. My sisters,
brother and I would start asking around 5 a.m. if we could get up. Usually around 6 a.m. Mother and Daddy would
say okay. Good memories!
Another tradition was for our family to take one night and drive around
town looking at the Christmas lights and
decorations. It was so much fun and
accompanied with lots of ooh’s and aah’s.
My family has continued to carry on that tradition. Johnson City, the home of Lyndon B. Johnson,
is not too far from where I live. It is
also the home of a big electric company.
One year the small town, with its fabulous Christmas lights and
displays, made CNN news. My son, his
family and I made the trip to see the decorations and it was well worth the
drive. I had never seen so many
beautiful lights in all my life. I plan
to go back again this year. (There is a
great little restaurant along the way that has scrumptious pies! Now you know where my heart lies!)
Nostalgia for past traditions, the joy of keeping some old ones alive,
and making new ones add to the warmth of the season. I cherish them all. – Janet B. Taylor
Christmas
at the McNamara household is all about the stockings! Now don't get me wrong,
we LOVE our presents under the tree (keep 'um comin' Santa!) - but the
stockings hold the most fun and laughter. First of all Santa wraps EVERYTHING
(lots of tape)...so the process is nice and slow (no zipping down to the orange
at our house!). There are MANY traditional inclusions: chapstick, nail
clippers, hot chocolate, a paperback book and a wind-up critter of some sort
(there will be critter races later in the day). Then there are some additional
silly surprises and 1 or 2 'just for you' special inclusions (just to show that
Santa has been paying attention). Then it's finally down to that reassuring
orange -- yep, it's Christmas. – Barbara McNamara
When
I was growing up, Christmas Eve was a special time. Our tree, which we’d have cut or purchased a
week or two before and had outside soaking in icy water, would be brought in
and my dad would string the lights early in the morning. (That was a dreaded task to get them all
evenly arrayed, and remains so to this day in my family.) Then, after all gathering for lunch, we would
decorate the tree together. Each of us
kids had a few special ornaments of our own that we added near the end and then
the last ornament to go on would be the bird (a stork) for luck. Then we’d start with the tinsel and the
inevitable arguments over how much was too much! Some of us liked to see green on our trees,
others would have covered it completely in the silver stuff. (That’s one tradition I ended when I had
family of my own – we don’t use tinsel anymore.) The lights would be left off (after being
tested) and come to life when we got back from church in the small hours. We would also put up the crèche, but the baby
Jesus in his manger would be put into the drawer of the table, not to appear
until the next morning.
After
dinner, we all had to crack open and eat a walnut. A healthy nut meant good fortune in the new
year. Then the cookie platter would
appear –yum! Sometimes then my folks
would have close friends over for a drink, but mostly it was family time. Around ten, we would go dress for midnight
mass. I loved those services, all the
carols and greenery adorning the altar and such; the sense of a ritual as old
as time to a child. When we got back, we
were all allowed to select and open one present, before being marched up to
bed. After brunch the next morning, we
would gather at the tree to share the rest.
The stockings would have been placed at the foot of our beds after we
were asleep, and we were allowed to dive into those on our own to tide us over.
But
in fact, my favourite Christmas Eve was one where I missed midnight mass. I was only five, but I remember it
clearly. We were living in Germany at
the time, and it had begun to snow early on Christmas eve. By nightfall it was very deep. The church was about a mile away, and it was
decided that, rather than try to drive there, the family would walk to midnight
mass. But it was also decided that I was
too little to tromp through deep snow that far, so I was not to go. I was disappointed at first. But it meant that I would stay home with my
dad. Now my dad was a loving man, but a
very serious and quiet one (taciturn, one might say unsocial… sound familiar?)
– and on top of that, he was a career Army officer, so there were several
Christmases spent without him being home – and on this occasion, we turned on
the Christmas tree lights (early) and he sat on the sofa with me. We read stories together, me cuddled into his
side; we sang a few carols. It was quiet; it was intimate. I knew then that it was a special time and,
as an adult looking back on it, realised it was magical. My mom reported later how magical it was for
them as well, walking through the dark silence to the little stone church,
footfalls muffled by the snow. But I
wouldn’t have traded that night with my dad for anything. – Tess Quinn
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